You shouldn’t be alone. No one should. Wedding cakes have two people standing on the top because life is way better with the right person than alone. Life is not about having fun by yourself. But finding true love, that’s what life is all about!
I am an expert in relationship dynamics. I’m a licensed psychologist and have taught at UCLA.
You’re not the problem, it’s your inner game that’s probably sabotaging your relationships.
We have developed a powerful method for people who don’t want to stay single. Our process is called Solution-Focused Relationship Therapy. People find it illuminating and uplifting. It will give you rapid new insights and lay out exactly what you can do to break the old patterns.
Have you been in therapy before – with no success? We can change that. (I have the wedding invitations to prove it.)
My process combines coaching and counseling. There’s homework and guidance. We set goals and watch as you change. It brings together the best of positive psychology, attachment therapy, CBT and mindfulness.
My approach is warm and supportive. I have been happily married for a many years, I’m a dad and a longtime meditator.
Sure, maybe other people are the problem. Or, just maybe, you are part of the problem. Maybe you are the one who is standing in your own way. Maybe you just need to make one minor change, or many major changes to get out of this loneliness cycle.
Have you ever wondered any of these things:
You weren’t born unlucky, it’s not your looks, and it’s not because you’re looking in all the wrong places. It is not who you are. Most people are doing everything they can to ensure things go right – but often their actions are defeating their purpose. And they don’t know it. That’s where an experienced therapist comes in. Learning how to shift your inner game is the most important thing standing between you and the relationship that will fulfill you.
Solution-Focused Relationship Therapy will help you to learn —
Here is my bottom line: Take a risk, take a chance. There is hope!